Remembering Aubrey Day (who would have rolled his eyes at this headline)
Nev Pierce
October 2 2025
The Fall Will Probably Kill You (Substack)
This is a story about my friend Aubrey, who died. It is also, inevitably, about me. This is possibly – definitely – self-involved, but the loss of someone is not abstract, or simply about someone’s inherent human worth, it is also about how stricken we are not to have them around, about what they meant to us, the part they played in our story.
Aubrey Day died a year ago, October 2, 2024. We had known each other 20 years, having met when I joined Total Film magazine, at Future Publishing. He was overseeing a few publications, but his passion was clearly movies and TV. He was a few years older than me, which in your 20s feels like a generation, and seemed debonair and certain, insanely confident and very, very clever. A few colleagues disliked him, not least because as well as being the smartest guy in the room, he was never especially shy about letting you know he was the smartest guy in the room. I just felt I had a lot to learn. And he was more than happy to teach. Not that he had a curriculum, or talked down to you (well, he didn’t always talk down to you), but he would present a problem and push you to solve it. It was a little sink or swim – he’d worked a bit in tabloids and had a tougher approach than the pally magazine world I was used to – but if he believed you could swim, that belief would buoy you.
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